When is violence appropriate? How to answer the hard questions…
Friday, August 29th, 2008
One of KIDS FIRST!’s baseline criteria is “no gratuitous violence or abuse.” But what is gratuitous violence, and how can parents and kids recognize it?
What exactly is violence? Physical violence includes hitting, punching, kicking, pushing, shoving, shooting, knifing, killing, certain acts of martial arts, damaging property, causing bodily harm, slapstick humor, and torture – real or animated. Verbal violence includes put-downs, name-calling, screaming, lying, teasing, foul language and disrespect.
Depending upon the age group targeted, not all violence is inappropriate and must be viewed within its context. We are often asked to explain what gratuitous violence entails. Here is a quick comparison of gratuitous vs. non-gratuitous violence to help you and your children make sense of the images they see.
Gratuitous violence may be identified by the following:
- Is not important to the plot and does not add to understanding the story or main characters.
- Is part of a continuous stream of kicking, punching and hitting – all in the name of conquering “the bad guy.”
- Shows humans, animals or cartoon characters being hurt in a humorous way.
- Makes fun of somebody or makes fun of the harmful act.
- Shows humans, animals or cartoon characters being squished, smashed or beat up and recovering a moment later.
Non -gratuitous violence may be identified by the following:
- Contributes to the overall story.
- Is used sparingly.
- Might teach a lesson or define the “bad guy.”
- Shows historical accuracy.
- Is there for its emotional effect on a scene.
- Portrays a negative behavior that is addressed and corrected within the story.
- Is in a program more suitable for an older child.
- Is shown with real consequences or correction.
(pictured top left, Adina’s Deck, an independent film about Cyberbullying.)
Kid’s All-Star values are different than adults. A DVD might not have many All-Star assets that we, adults think are important, and that I outlined in my last blog
What makes a film or DVD so good that it get KIDS FIRST!’s highest rating? All of the products we endorse receive a one-, two- or three-star rating. We call our three-star rating an All-Star. All-Star media contain assets that are deemed beneficial to a child such as educational benefits, positive role models or they help a child figure understand their world. All-Stars should also have examplary production values. Here is a list of typical assets we examine before awarding an All-Star rating:
Enhance a child’s self-esteem.
are engaged in viewing a film, TV program or DVD. Parents can try this with their kids, no matter what age they are.
At KIDS FIRST! we know that kids are exposed to all sorts of media. We hear the complaints about kids watching too much TV and not being active enough. That is why we think it is especially important that you don’t let your kids become passive about what they watch. There are lots of great ways to get kids more involved, both physically and intellectually, with what they watch on TV or DVD. Here are some suggestions forbecoming “active” media viewers:
What makes KIDS FIRST! reviews so unique?? We include the feedback of both adults AND kids in every review we make. Our specially trained adult and child jurors across the country are what makes the KIDS FIRST! program so special! Here are some tips to consider when reviewing children’s media with your jury of kids: